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21 Traits of a High-Value Man He's Emotionally Available – Or Working to Be. ... He Has Healthy Boundaries. ... He Values and Understands Enthusiastic Consent. ... He Respects Women and Sees Them as His Equal. ... He's Loyal. ... He's Financially Responsible. ... He Takes Care of His Appearance. ... He Creates His Own Happiness. More items... •

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In this article we will talk about the main traits of a high-value man. The content of this post can be very useful both for men – as it can help them learn and develop these traits – and women – as it can help them learn to recognize good men. Let’s get this out of the way before we go any further. All men have intrinsic value. Everyone deserves love, respect, and consideration. This isn’t about assigning an arbitrary hierarchy to men. Instead, these are traits that we can recognize and celebrate in men. A man who possesses all of these traits will likely be healthier in relationships and, for this reason, is a desirable partner. The good news is that every single trait on this list can be developed. Consider it aspirational if you like, but let’s talk about the traits that are appreciated in men.

21 Traits of a High-Value Man

1. He’s Emotionally Available – Or Working to Be

The high-value man is emotionally available to his partner — or he’s at least working to be emotionally available. We can’t help how we’re raised or the attachment style our childhood creates for us, but we can work to be vulnerable, open, and available for relationships by learning how to engage in intimate relationships without shutting down. An emotionally available man isn’t closed off to his partner. He’s not preventing intimacy or getting in his own way. He’s willing to be seen and known for who is and risking rejection in the process. It’s brave. If he’s not there yet but is diligently working on it, that’s brave, too.

2. He Has Healthy Boundaries

A high-value man has strong healthy boundaries. He’s created a life for himself that’s respectful of his wants and needs and is capable of respecting others as well. He knows he doesn’t complete his partner and that his partner doesn’t complete him. He’ll take responsibility for his own actions and feelings, but he’s not going to take responsibility for anyone else’s.

It’s not unkind; it’s healthy — and a high-value trait in anyone.

3. He Values and Understands Enthusiastic Consent

The high-value man understands and values enthusiastic consent. He understands power dynamics and respects them. This isn’t a man who will take advantage of someone in a subordinate position at work. He’s not going to sleep with a date who’s obviously intoxicated. He doesn’t just know the concept of consent; he regularly practices it.

4. He Respects Women and Sees Them as His Equal

A powerful sign of a high-value man is that he is respectful of women and also considers them his equal. He won’t have misogyny running through his dialogue about the opposite sex. He understands that the world isn’t a fair or equal place but is doing his part to move toward that end. Because of this, the high-value man doesn’t expect the woman in his life to be his cook, maid, nanny, or minder. He sees her as an equal partner and will work equally in the relationship with her.

5. He’s Loyal

The high-value man is fiercely loyal to the people he loves. He’ll step up to defend them, and he’s not going to tolerate anyone in his life who can’t be respectful of those relationships. This doesn’t mean that he keeps people in his life who aren’t good for him. It does mean that he will strongly value and protect all his relationships with unflinching loyalty. Because he pairs this with healthy values, he understands he can love someone and be loyal to their memory if they are no longer a good fit in his life.

6. He’s Financially Responsible

Another key trait of the high-value man is that he is financially responsible. In a changing economy, this can be a sensitive topic. This doesn’t mean he’s wealthy. It does mean that he takes care of his financial responsibilities. If he has debt, he pays it on time. If he has a job, he faithfully shows up for it. He’s managing his money; it’s not managing him. He knows what a budget is and how to use it, and he’s not living so far outside of his means that he’ll never get his head above water. This is important. Even when someone has gone through a financial setback, how they move ahead is important. Consider their efforts.

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Are they making good decisions with their money or not? This is a big consideration when considering partnership. A high-value man is capable of financial independence and will be responsible with his income.

7. He Takes Care of His Appearance

He’ll also take good care of his appearance. The high-value man cares about personal hygiene and grooming. He isn’t slovenly, and whether his style is t-shirts and jeans or a full suit, he looks nice and probably smells good, too. The thing about personal hygiene is that a lack of it can communicate a lack of self-respect and self-esteem. Someone who isn’t taking good care of themselves might not be ready to be a full partner in a relationship.

8. He Creates His Own Happiness

He isn’t looking for his Renee Zelwegger to complete him. Instead, he completes himself. The high-value man knows that he is responsible for his own emotional well-being. He doesn’t look for it outside of himself. This is important. He’s not going to put the responsibility for his happiness in his partner’s hands and then hold it against them when he isn’t happy all the time. He’ll take care of his needs and assume they’ll take care of theirs. Then, together, they’ll be in a good place to take care of each other by nurturing the relationship.

9. He Is Honest

A man can’t be high-value and dishonest with himself or others. It’s just not possible. Honesty is so important. The high-value man isn’t going to lie, not even by omission, but he’s not the kind of person who will tell the truth in an unkind way either. His honesty includes an element of kindness so that even if the truth hurts, you know it came with the best possible intentions.

10. He Is Reliable and Consistent

We can see that the high-value man is both reliable and consistent. He does what he says he’ll do, and he consistently communicates. He’s not in the habit of letting other people down if he can avoid it. In fact, his partner won’t have to wonder how he feels about them because he is consistent in telling and showing them.

11. He Fights Fair

Another high-value trait is the ability to fight fair. Conflict is inevitable. Avoiding isn’t a good sign. What is a good sign is when the man in your life is capable of navigating disagreements with respect, kindness, and consideration. He will hear his partner’s grievances and share his own and do it without yelling, calling names, invalidating feelings, or getting defensive.

Let’s be honest: this one is hard. We all make mistakes.

The question is whether or not he’s consistently trying to fight fair and solve the problems or if he’s only ever looking for someone other than him to blame.

12. He’s into Self-Improvement

The high-value man is also all about self-improvement. He’s learning and growing as a person, not remaining stagnant through his lifetime.

He doesn’t just embrace ideals; he lives them.

This isn’t to say that he doesn’t have faults. We all do. He just works on them rather than expecting everyone in his life to deal with his issues.

13. He’s Generous

One of the most beautiful qualities he possesses is that he is innately generous. He can be generous with time, money, attention, affection, or even compliments. He’s constantly helping and giving. It might even seem effortless even when it’s not. He’s a giving person, and while he’s sometimes taken advantage of for this quality, his healthy boundaries will ensure that it doesn’t happen often.

14. He’s Intelligent

Intelligence is sexy. The high-value man is capable of having conversations that go so much deeper than work and the weather. He’s always learning and maintains his curiosity. Talking to him is never boring. He has something to say, and he won’t just talk to hear his own voice.

15. He’s Got a Sense of Humor

Humor is often one of the most coveted traits in a partner. There’s just something wonderful about someone who can make us laugh. The high-value man has a great sense of humor. He might be into puns, dad jokes, or the perfectly timed comeback, but he’ll make us laugh often.

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16. He Has Integrity

One of the sexiest traits in the high-value man is all his delicious integrity. He knows who he is, what he stands for and believes, and he actually practices it. This isn’t a man who’s going to use anyone for his own purposes. That would be outside of his personal code. He lives by what is right and wrong, but he’s capable of seeing nuances and not just in black and white.

17. He’s Accountable

The high-value man is accountable for his words and actions. If he makes mistakes, as we all sometimes do, he can own up to them, apologize, and make amends for what he’s done. It may not be easy for him, but he’ll do it because he takes responsibility for himself and lives up to his value system.

18. He’s Self-Aware

The high-value man is self-aware. He doesn’t think he’s without flaws or better than anyone else. He knows his issues and is actively working on them, but perfection isn’t the goal. He’s trying every day to be a good person, and he accepts that sometimes he will mess up because he is a human being. His self-awareness makes him a valuable partner in any relationship.

19. He Knows What He Wants

The high-value man isn’t trying to figure out who he is. He’s done that work. He knows who he is, and he knows what he wants. He’s got purpose and a drive to meet it. He’s not going to define himself by his partner or the relationship.

20. He’s a Great Listener

Many people are great talkers, but the high-value man is also a great listener. It’s an often-overlooked sign of good communication. He listens attentively and doesn’t just dole out advice no one wanted in the first place. He tunes in and pays attention to what is being said and is responsive to it. And he can hold space with the best of them because he knows that it’s not enough to communicate well with words if it’s not also paired with active listening.

21. He Turns Toward You, Not Away

The high-value man turns toward intimacy, not away from it. When his partner tries to connect, he’s responsive to it. Even if he has childhood avoidant tendencies, he works to be engaged with his partner even when it’s challenging. This is more than just working to be more emotionally available. He’s conscious that relationships require care, nurturing, and maintenance over time. He won’t neglect that if he can help it. He’s constantly attuned to relational needs because he values the relationships in his life and doesn’t take them for granted.

You and the High-Value Man

This isn’t the part where I say to marry the man and have all his babies. It is the part where I remind us all that high-value men are a treasure. They make it look easy, but it’s not. They don’t get nearly enough appreciation sometimes, but they won’t complain about it. The high-value men aren’t the nice guys who see themselves as both hero and victim in their stories. They don’t claim the world treats them wrong or that they deserve more than they’ve gotten. The high-value man is living his best life by living according to his values, taking care of his relationships, and doing the next right thing. He’s more than a good man; he’s a great one.

His value doesn’t come from his wallet, status, or possessions.

It comes from his commitment to honoring himself and others. He’s not perfect, but it doesn’t matter. He’s a high-value man, and we appreciate it.

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